Questions about being an Alpha Man

To Be Alpha has received a lot of questions from alpha males, aspiring alpha males and beta males throughout the past year.

A lot of these questions are asked by multiple people. Instead of just answer them each time, it’s better that we put a frequently asked question section.

Frequently Asked Questions

Can I really be alpha?

Yes you can. You make a decision to be who you are. If you need more help check this post on being alpha.

Do I have to sleep with a lot of women to be alpha?

Alpha is about doing what you want. Don’t go around comparing yourself to others as a measuring stick. Your success needs to be measured on your own expectations and standards. You can sleep with as many or as few women as possible.
For more help on relationships check out the dating and relationships section.

I don’t know how to fight so can I be alpha?

Fighting isn’t alpha. Defending yourself and others is. You can learn how to fight if you want – it might help with your mentality but it’s not necessary.

I didn’t go to a top college or have a really good job, am I screwed for life?

Not at all. What is it you’re trying to achieve in life? If it’s getting a great education, it’s never too late to go back to school. If its to make a lot of money, there are plenty of ways to do that.
It’s not the best example but there are plenty of people that didn’t even go to college and have really great lives.
You’re not screwed. If you think you are – check out the website a bit more and get the help you need.

Do I have to be tall to be alpha?

The truth is it’s easier if you’re taller. Size matters.
But don’t be too concerned if you’re not tall. There’s not much you can do about your height unless you want to buy some of these.
What you should focus on is what you can do. Having a bigger presence and working on having really solid body language. That will help.

What is the best way to be alpha?

Check out the alpha section.

I don’t want to be a dick. I am a nice guy and I like it. What should I do?

Well you don’t have to be a dick to be alpha. There is a misconception of what an alpha male is and what he isn’t.
Check out The Myth of the Alpha Male.
You can be alpha without being a dick.

Where should I start?

Get your priorities straight. It doesn’t matter where you start. Taking action is what is important.
It all starts with a single step.

I’m not rich. How am I going to be alpha?

Money doesn’t make you alpha. This is part of the myth of being alpha.

I know I need to change what I wear but I don’t know what to do. Help me.

We have an entire section on fashion. We provide you with the essentials and tips on how to put together a look.

Do I really have to work out?

No, but you should. It will make you feel better, you’ll probably look better and other people will look at you differently.

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